caution: privacy line, do not cross

January 9, 2010
i watch my own privacy as closely as a secret service securing POTUS (can’t use GMA without understating my point). i take it seriously, guard it as though my life’s on the line, value it more than one might a friendship, and will not allow anyone to cross the huge red line without my consent. doing so inadvertently is acceptable. could shoot one right between the eyes though should s/he utterly violate my highly valued personal privacy. no one messes with it, and nobody should in the first place. privacy owes its very existence to respect. however, respect in this case is just a one long flimsy yellow cordon deployed around one’s privacy telling anyone not to cross. and flimsy as it is, you could expect another person to simply ignore it and cut across, worst when others, with utmost disrespect, ravish one’s much valued privacy more sickening and despicable than a group of thieves wrecking and ransacking one’s own house right in front of its owner. unspoken rule is, never cross the line, respect the yellow cordon, wait until consented before even attempting to lift the damn yellow ribbon that is respect. deliberately doing otherwise is as despicable as grabbing one’s privacy by the collar, shoving it to the ground, stomping all over it and tossing it right into the bin. nobody does it on purpose, it is one of the many things you don’t take for shit, no gross intrusion, no invasion, no breach, nobody disrespects anybody’s privacy as easily as entering the men’s piss room, doing so is just off, below the belt, foul. so never barge into anyone’s privacy ever, as it warrants nothing less than losing another person’s respect, or worse.